Communication Hack: How to Talk with The Universe & Our Kids

Communicate With The Universe

In this post, I will discuss the best way to communicate with the Universe and our children. I’ll talk about small shifts you can make in your communication style that can make a huge difference in your results. You might wonder how these two subjects relate, and I will be breaking that down for you in this post!

Manifest With Positive Perspective

When we want to manifest what we desire in our lives, the way that we communicate our desires to the Universe does matter. We always have the choice of whether we are talking about what we want from a positive or negative perspective.

You want to be sure to tell the Universe what you want rather than what you don’t want. Instead of saying, “I don’t want an abusive partner or a partner that smokes”, you would want to phrase it as, “I am so happy and grateful now that I have a loving, caring, gentle partner whose focus is on their health.”. 

This subtle difference can make a huge difference. If we are speaking in the negative, we are really focusing on the lack of our desire. When we talk about the positive, we are focusing on having this desire, and better yet, speaking in the present tense is best, to be speaking about it as though it has already happened, and is already yours. It is important to note that this difference comes down to the feelings behind your words, more than the words yourself. 

Manifesting Desires

We want to feel how we will feel when we have our desire and exude those feelings. For instance, if you really desire a big raise at your job or more clients in your business, what feeling would the version of you that already has that feel? 

You would probably feel security, joy, more freedom in your decisions, etc. It’s all very personal, of course. Once you uncover those feelings, you can determine how aligned you are with your desire based on the current feelings you are evoking. If you are feeling feelings that are very similar to the ones you feel about that future you would have, then you are very close to bringing that desire into your physical world. If you are feeling quite the opposite and on the other side of the emotional scale, then you have some work to do to cover that gap. 

Communicating Your Desires

One thing that is very important when it comes to communicating your desires to the Universe is that even when you think of your desire, you are not quite matching up with it on an energetic level, all is not lost! If you can think of and experience other things that bring up that emotion within you, then that is still taking you in the right direction and closing that gap. It can be very helpful to think of some topics/activities that evoke that emotion fairly effortlessly. This work doesn’t have to be so challenging; do what you feel inspired to make it more fun.

You want to make this journey as fun as possible.

This distinction between these two ways you might express your desires to the Universe may make you concerned that you need to be hyper-focused about every word you think. Remember, as I mentioned above, the things you express mostly come down to how they make you feel. Don’t be overly worried that every word you say will instantly affect your manifestations. There is a buffer to what we create for this very reason. You have time to really be able to mold your creations and dance with the Universe as you make them into your perfect masterpiece. *chef’s kiss*

So what is the best way to declare your manifestations? 

As I’ve discussed, I HIGHLY suggest that everyone journal regularly. For shadow work, to brain-dump, to bring your manifestations into the physical plane with pen and paper. Right now, your desire is simply swimming around in your brain, along with tons of other thoughts, so putting them down on paper can really help you to take that first step to bring it into reality. You can make practice journaling in the evening before bed or at a particular time of the week or month that you’d like to take to dream up your future. 

Related to Manifesting

I also have a blog post about activities you can do around the full moon if you want to utilize the full moon’s energy to declare your manifestations. You can create your own ritual around speaking or writing your declarations. You can also mix in different crystals and essential oils that relate to what you want to manifest. Whatever brings in the energies you are after makes what you want to create feel more real. 

Present Tense Affirmations

You can also use this particular way of communicating your desires in the positive and present tense as affirmations. This can help to really allow your desires to sync in on an emotional level. You can write out your affirmations or speak them as allowed. It can be powerful to speak your affirmations while looking into the mirror. Repeat a predetermined amount of time or until you feel complete. 

Why is speaking in the present tense so important when it comes to manifestation?

When we speak about our desires in the sense that we do not yet have them, we focus on the fact that “they are not yet ours” and that we are in the process of obtaining them. This is the exact opposite of what we want, which is to bring our desires to us as quickly as possible. Talking about our desires in this way can create a sort of holding pattern, keeping us in the space of not yet having these desires as our own. When we speak our desires as though they are already ours, we get into the energy of that being the case. Again, this is a subtle difference in our words that has a deep impact. 

How can we use the “positive” communication tip to better communicate with our children?

In the same way, we need to speak in the positive and very specifically with the Universe; this principle transfers over to how we talk to our children. Instead of telling them, “Don’t touch anything!” it’s better to phrase it in the positive, “Please keep your hands to yourself.”. Using the negative version of what we are trying to express can confuse our kids. When they hear “Don’t touch that”, they have to double-take because at. First, they mainly hear "touch that”, then they have to go back and filter it back a second time to process the don’t. This can have the opposite effect of what you are trying to express. 

Manifestation Communication Techniques For Kids

Your kids will understand you more quickly and clearly using this communication technique. It’s also a more feel-good way to communicate in general. This will probably take time to make a habit, but as you utilize this communication style more and more, it will become much more natural. Try it out for at least a couple of weeks and see what results you get. 

Peaceful Parenting 

I love incorporating this one of many tips to be a peaceful parent. Parenting in the past has generally been very much like a dictatorship. I love that there is such a movement at this time to see children as individuals and respect them the way you would as an adult. Their desires, feelings, and preferences matter and should be considered. There are so many changes we can make in how we communicate with our kids, some you may have never considered; this is one small step. 

Isn’t it interesting how both of these subjects relate? We talk to the Universe and how we speak with our kids. It all comes down to being very intentional with our communication and can of course, span even further to other relationships as well.

Small Communication Shifts

Even small shifts can make a big difference in communication. We don’t even think about many shifts until someone points them out. 

Thank you for reading! What is your biggest takeaway from this post, and do you plan to shift your communication style? I’d love to hear from you below in the comments section!

I also have a short video based on the same topic: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@latha_jay/video/7066780119708486959?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1